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Thursday, April 1

I'm too vulgar....in MY blog?

Yo.

Today I recieved an e-mail from some random e-mail address. Telling me how enjoyable my blog was but asking why I cursed so much..why I felt the need to be vulgar to get my point across.

When  I first started my blog I censored myself so much because I thought only about my audience. ALL of my audience. I thought about how some people may be offended if I cursed too much..or if I mentioned the gritty details on sex..! So, I toned it all down. Then I got tired of censoring myself.I started this blog so that I would have somewhere to vent, somewhere to discuss what runs thru my mind on a daily--- non sugar-coated. Meaning, No fake bullshit. For my older audience I apologize for my vulgarness. I do respect my elders...I don't like older people looking at me thinking I'm just your average disrectful young woman. Mother taught me better. I was at an associates house today and I saw how he cursed sooo much in front of his parents and his grandparents. Something I just couldn't wrap my mind around. As soon as I'm in someone's presence who has 10 years or more on me I turn my vulgar-ness off...not to be fake, but out of respect. However in my blog??....I will not do that. My cursing isnt intentionally to bother anyone...these are my thoughts in rare form. No editing. I just felt I needed to address that to those who might judge me because " I curse too much". Understand, I respect EVERYone who takes the time to read my thoughts..but here, in my blog...I will not change anything. It is like asking me to change the contents in my diary...Why would I?

14 comments:

aimes said...

EXACTLY! Once you enter, it's left for you to pull up a chair, or walk the hell out!

Continue to do you boo!

pennanddpaperr . said...

uhm you do have a Adult Content Warning before you click into your written world so what the hell man!? the nerve of some ppl, hmph!

keep doing you girl!

Secretia said...

Good, stay the way you are, Robyn!

Secretia

birdie said...

What's with people and these backhanded compliments? Do you! You're telling your life, the way you want to. Keep doing it.

khaki said...

i love when people decide to read my blog then complain.... loves it.

Cook.ThePoet. said...

I feel you cause this is yours. They dnt have to click 'continue'.Namean there is a warning page l0l

-Cook.ThePoet.

VonDign said...

ehh i say fucc em in the ear... they dont like it ...fuc em in the other ear

The Invisible Seductress said...

Please never change..and maybe help some of us who aren't as wonderful and gorg as you!!

hugs

Traci Lavette said...

I mean..."what the hell???!!!" Why do these people think they can question us on our own shit?! Where does that come from?! It's an enter at your own risk zone, you know? Come on! Too bad there can't be something somewhere saying "if any of this prompts you to ask questions that are none of ya muthaf***in business, click the damn "X" in the top right hand corner NOW to remove the urge.

SMDH!

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

It was specially registered at a forum to tell to you thanks for support how I can thank you?

Anonymous said...

And how in that case to act?

Anonymous said...

Yes, really. And I have faced it. Let's discuss this question.