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Tuesday, January 19

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Yo.


Okay so i dont know what the hell told me I could get caught up on ALL the blogs I follow in one night. I've been catching up for 5 hours and just made it to the B's. I stopped right before Blu Flame Blvd. 5 hours and not even half way through??? I just realized I follow entirely too many blogs! But I'm addicted to blogging. Smh..I will get to everyone..I promise! So this is going to take wayyy longer than I thought. And since I missed soo much i'm just going in alphabetical order so I'm sure not to miss anyone. I'm soooo tired though. And I'm going to have to continue getting caught up tomorrow..as well as make a few blog changes!
So the question on my mind: What makes a person marriage material?.


I know many people will have many different answers, and I look foward to reading them all. I'll voice my opinion on it a little later. Ok...until tomorrow...TOODLES! :)

14 comments:

Cook.ThePoet. said...

Sooo you should just skip down to the M's *cough,cough* l0l

Marriage material. Ok. I got this *pops knuckles* Someone who is marriage material, of course loves you unconditionally [ & you love them same duh] & would do anything to be with you. They have to be trustworthy,loyal,& able to respect whatever differences you two may have on certain topics or points of view.
They have to be on your level in life. If yall lay out your life plans & in the end it ends with being you & them.
I can honestly say My grl is marriage material. Like as we speak she is in the middle of tranfering schools so she can be closer to me. This is a better move not only for our relationship but also her education.
Marriage material means that you will do anything to be with a person. Not in a stalker,obsessive way [lol] but head over heels, infatuated 'let's grow old together' type of way.
I know I can see me and my grl now living somewhere together in about 40 years & looking at each other the same way we do now.
True love.
That makes someone marriage material.
Is that good enough? =]

-Cook.ThePoet.

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F said...

Honestly, I don't think there's such as thing as "marriage material". What truly matters in such a partnership is that the people involved are compatible and love each other.

The term "marriage material" is usually used by men to describe someone who cooks, cleans and all that jazz... But being able to make a mean mac and cheese doesn't miraculously stop you from being a total bitch... Same way, being a guy with a high-flying job (Mr Provider) doesn't automatically make you perfect husband material...

Like I said, it's way more subjective than specific criteria. It's about the people involved.

VonDigne said...

simple ... if that person fits with you in every way that matters...marriage material

VonDigne said...

oh yeah add alot of love to that

Secretia said...

When that man you love is just so comfortable to be around that you can't imagine life without him. He needs to be faithful to you. His ass needs to have money, and a good job too!

Secretia

sunshinestar110 said...

I would have to agree with VonDigna....its the fit that makes marriage material nothing more nothing less of course love and all that jazz too

xxxx said...

omg you are back yayyyy * do a dance* lol.. and i just asked this question like two days ago on twitter i have come to the conclusion with some help that what makes someone marriage material depends on what the two parties involved are lookin for. it varies for everyone. but im gonna post the same question on my blog and see what my readers say.. (maybe) lol... welcome back hun

Tokyo.Diamond said...

i agree with everybody else above me. marriage material to me is when you can trust someone 100percent. She/he gotta be faithful & always be there when you need him/her. Someone who understands you & will love you no matter what. Every relationship has its ups & downs and if that person you love is still there holding your hand tight through the hard times. Then you prolly know that person is marriage material. So yeah that's what I think.

Val or Pro Brooklynite said...

*kicks in this bitch guns a blazing* you know P is for Pretty and P is for Prosperous and Prolific and Presumptuous and Pro what do you know? lmfao you should just skip the blogs and take a trip to Planet Pro-ton :0) hey mamaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! just making my rounds.

Val or Pro Brooklynite said...

oh shit i got besides myself ok to answer your question... a person is marriage material when your souls align, views are on the same plane of here and now and morally you fit... when you meet your "one" it doesn't have specifics its just something that you feel... and you just know that just like that you'll never ever be the same.

MzAuNatural-Beauty said...

I think you'll know when someone is marriage material because it will be in your heart of hearts.. that magnetism that there is no denying.. you absolutely can't live w/o.. I mean material, or personable traits make anyone marriage material.

Myne Whitman said...

I don't think there's one particular thing. It depends on the two people. They have to be attracted to each other and know it in themselves that they can spends loads of time together.

NightFall914 said...

LOL!!!......So that's why I got a flood of comments from you in one short period of time.:p