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Friday, February 19

Tat that pussy up...wth?

Yo.
Ok, now off that depressing shit. Thanks to all my lovely followers. Ive been going through my shit...and now Im feeling a tad bit better. My "Flaw" post will be a continuous thing and yes anyone who wants to use the idea can! :) I'm glad I can inspire and uplift some of you with my random post! Your feedback means sooo much too me. I'm trying to get caught back up on things in the Blog World. Sorry for my absence. Anywho...I came to talk about one specific thing that just urks the hell out of me.

My sister was telling me about how one of her friends [a senior in high school] went and got a tattoo on her bikini line that read "{enter her boyfriends name here}"! They are not married..nor engaged. Havent even been dating for a full year and she went and got his name tatted. Did he get her name on him somewhere?...HELL NAW! I fuckin' hate when people do dumb shit like that. Too many times I've seen this and I just think its the silliest decision a young girl can make. I understand that it is always a way to get it removed but why do tht to your body? WHY do people go out and do this? To prove to their mates how much they love them? To show that they are the only ones in that pussy? Why go that far for someone who isnt willing do the same? And when he leaves..when something goes wrong your stuck with his name damn near on your pussy. Smh, complete sillilness. The only way I can see it being ok to get his name tatted is if he puts a ring on it...and you have a marriage license in hand! Then and only then is that ok! There are not enough words I can say to truley show how disgusted I am with this whole concept. Smh at these silly hoes! [If you are one of them...please explain why you got it?]....Smh! Toodles!

17 comments:

Young Educated Black Male said...

i always thought this shit was ignorant to do shit, like that. i just shake my damn head.

Secretia said...

That is some decision she made, Wow! Something to think about...

Secretia

♥PrettyPacino♥ said...

I think it's incredibly stupid for people to get names tattooed on them period, but for couples who are "dating" (and that term is applied loosely because some people don't realize that they aren't even IN a relationship!) it's even more dumb. Getting pricked with needles and left with permanent ink doesn't make a man/woman stay with you when they get sick of your simple azz.. So why bother? There are plenty of other ways to show love and loyalty, but all people know of nowadays is getting permanently inked as a symbol of non-permanent relationship statuses. SMH.

Nnenna-Rose said...

One of my friends got a tattoo of her so called boo on her lower stomach and they were only together for 4 months. I thought it was real stupid of her especially now they not together. She said she was just caught up in that infatuation moment and did it and regret it now. I do agree with you that's only cool if you married but at this point naw that's not cool.

Miss.Fortune said...

ok, i agree.
thats just dumb!
tattoos should be meaningful and the only time someones name should be tatted on another human being is if they have given birth (the parent or the child) or if someone extremely close has died.. just in my opinion and even then i've never gotten anyones name tatted on me. why would you do that? and love is an excuse if thats the answer..lol

kindalingers said...

The tattoo is just silly !!!

JStar said...

Shoot even if you are married...DONT DO IT!! Like a fool, I did it years ago...We were married...and now have been divorced since 2005 :( I STILL gotta get that covered...

khaki said...

High school though? Wow... i went to the most hood-rattish ass highschool in Baltimore and I never saw anything like that. Crazy.

F said...

Some people crack me up... Reeks of Angelina and Billy Bob minus the mini UN they are building with all those kids... The only way a guy's name is ever ending up on my body is if I were to be kidnapped and forcefully branded... (Dear Lord, PLEASE don't let that happen... Can't stand the thought)

Shay said...

That's seriously one of the dumbest thing you can do . No relationship is guaranteed so why get something that attaches you to them permanently . Get matching tshirts or some shit . Smh .

tha unpretentious narcissist © said...

she's young & dumb. shit like that happens. it is stupid, but trust by the end of the year she'll have learned her lesson.

xxxx said...

she young and dumb.. nothing more to say than that.. she will learn sooner rather than later that you just dont do shit like that. not even if i were married to someone would i tattoo their name on me... hell no. i have two tattoos..one of me and my twin and another with a meaningful quote.. both meant something to me and those are the only two im getting..smh poor child lost

zodiac said...

wow, at least you got you head on straight. my auntie did the same thing and they didn't even last for a month, how she gonna get mad when i told her she's a dumb bitch? im just keepin it real

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SailorWifey said...

I have my ex's name tatted on the back of my right shoulder. I got it on my 21st birthday so we had been together 3 years at the time. I don't regret it at all even though I'm married to someone else. All of my tats (except my stars) mean something to me and he was the greatest love of my life. He has my name tatted on his arm as well and we both swore to never have them covered and neither of us have thus far.

♥ SailorWifey

Reggie said...

That was a mistake.