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Monday, October 19

You won't wife me if.....I have a tongue ring?!

Yo.

Every time I write I feel as if I must apologize for my lacking between posts. So I now retract my previous statement, this is not a daily blog. It is an at least twice a week posted blog. That’s a more reasonable promise I can keep. Anywho....

Today's Topic: You won’t wife me if....I have a tongue ring?!

Ok, so this topic in specific has been bothering me for a longgg time. I've wanted a tongue ring for the longest; I just think they are completely badass. They are such an adorable piercing. But people act like getting a tongue ring has a specific meaning. Like if you get one you’re automatically classified and stereotyped into this section: HOE. Why is that? Now I’m not the one to care about anyone’s opinion of me, so everyone ELSE's opinion of me does not matter the least bit to me. But his did. When discussing my plans to go get a tongue ring with my ex boyfriend [current at that time] he disapproved. We had a full conversation about what type of image it put off. He asked why I wanted one. I told him because I thought they were really cute...it’s like him with a tattoo. He said it portrays that you suck dick. “I mean they sexy. But when I look at a girl with a tongue ring all I think about is what she could do with it. I don’t think 'oooh that’s a cute ring'." I argued that just because someone has a tongue ring does not mean they got it to enhance their oral skills. Because having a tongue ring doesn’t mean you’re necessarily good at sucking dick either. It doesn’t necessarily mean you give head at all. [& EVEN if it did, what would it matter...it’s just a part of sex; BIG FUCKING DEAL]


He went on to say girls with tongue rings are not wife material. "You look at 'em, wanna get with them...but it’s for fun; never long term", according to his thoughts. What kind of logic is that? How can you seriously base someone’s whole self worth on a piercing they own? Just because someone has a tongue ring doesn’t mean they will suck your dick. Wife-ing someone I thought was based on the woman’s characteristics, values, morals...and all that other stuff. But because people would look at a woman your with and think "She's a freak", you wouldn’t marry her...no matter how great of a woman she is. Ughh...how fucking shallow. I really hate when people let society determine how far their relationships last. Soon as society thinks the person they are with isn’t good enough, they leave. So my question to my audience is...when you see a person with a tongue ring do you think their nasty? Freaky? Not wife worthy? If so....Why? Why does it matter that there’s a ring in someone’s tongue. I understand wanting a classy wife...but having a hole in your tongue doesn’t mean she’s a hoe. It doesn’t mean that she isn’t classy. I want a tongue ring but because he gave his opinion that too many other guys have, I paused on the thought. I put off something I really wanted because of what society thinks.Ughhh, Sometimes even society [not really, it was just him] has an impact on me. If he hadn’t told me he wouldn’t wife a girl with a tongue ring I would have been had one. People don’t exactly have the highest opinion of me anyway; people are going to think what they want regardless. Somewhere in the back on my mind I agree, but only after a certain age period. WTF would a 40 yr old be doing with a tongue ring, it's not cute after a certain age. I'd have to let it close up when I got older...just because it’s a young people thing to me. I’m still thinking about getting one when I’m 21...just for the badass-ness! Anywho, Share your thoughts...Opinions? But until next time...
Toodles!

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

sorry girl i gotta disagree. when i see a girl with a tongue ring its just not classy. now SOME girls can pull it off without being slutty (you) but im a NO when it comes to tongue piercings. you made some good points. and that guy (who i might know) was just bein ridiculous. he shoulda been more supportive, but yeh no tongue. none. nay.

[The Adopted Brother]

RoByn LaTice said...

Lmao. Meech I love you! I understand your point of view...I guess some people really cant pull it off..BUT SOME CAN! <3

Secretia said...

It's your own mouth, that means you can put anything you want into it.

It's just a matter of personal style.

Secretia

RoByn LaTice said...

Thank you. At least someone agrees and doesnt thinks its "whorish"! Thanks for reading! :)

xxxx said...

im 1/2 and 1/2 with this one. i used to think that a tongue ring was not classy and in a way i still do. i do think that it does give off one message and that is one of only using it for oral pleasure not that it is a bad ass piercing but based on my own personal experience and own piercings i have to be more open because i know my mother does not agree with my piercings and since getting them she has talked down to me about them and i dont like it and its not a good feeling so i no longer do it to other people. i am not a freak, slut anything like that i just didnt want to get anymore tattoos because i didnt want to leave permenant marks on my body but others dont see it that way

Shandra E...*the misses said...

before i finished reading i had one thing in mind & ironically you said it yourself: "WT.. would a 40 yr old be doing with a tongue ring, it's not cute after a certain age. I'd have to let it close up when I got older...JUST BECAUSE IT'S A YOUNG PEOPLE THING to me".

SO TO SOME IT UP: it's not becoming! So that's why he mentioned a wife...see he never said he wouldn't date a girl with a tongue ring or that he wouldn't have one as his girlfriend, but that's the thing she's just a GIRLfriend...when a man becomes ready to think of marriage and a wife...he starts looking for a woman...

a chick with a tongue ring is like a guy with french braids/cornrows....it locks you into a certain level of maturity and stagnates how established a man/woman is MENTALLY. speaks values about the core of the person, their decisions and way of perceiving life....Now whether the image portrayed by tongue rings/corn rows are totally accurate is irrelevant...at 1st glance everything is Shallow so it's up to every individual to evoke depth...

her . said...

ive had my tounge pierced twice ! i know wtf? lol but it was because i got it done for the first time when i was 16 and it was one of those "i thought i was grown" things haha. i eventually took it out and got it repierced wenn i was 18.

im with yuu. i think thur completely badd ass. alot of CLOSE MINDED ppl will think what they want but shit, theyll think whatever if they saw you wearing heels and short skirts everyday. its just people. i say dont let anyone talk you outt of what you want to put on yur own body. if i listened to ppl like some do i wouldnt drivee the car i do, have the piercins i havee, or dress or conduct the way i do.

its just another form of self expression in my opinion. screw the haters and shit talkers. they probably secretly want it too but too scared to go against the grain. WACCCK ! lol

madd love.

- monique starr * . said...

i aqree w. you in this post. me , myself have 2 piercinqs ( monroe&noes ) & to me their NOT PERMENANT ! you can always take them out no matter what. its not a biq deal & its a form of art & expression.