GiRLS HOLDiNG OUT ON THE [NOOKiE]

Yo!


So Today has been a pretty dry day. I mean I went to bio lab and came back to my room! Whoa...what a day for a college student huh? Anywho on to the topic of the day.

Topic of the day: GiRLS MAKiNG GUYS WAiT FOR THE NOOKiE!

Sex? Yes...the topic is sex! So a guy friend of mine suggested this topic. I hear and read about things like this all the time. I've heard many different views on it...but have never really voiced mine on it! So here goes.

A girl gets with a guy that she's kind of feeling and decides not to fuck him until she KNOWS that he is there for her and not just for her pussy. Hmmm, now speaking from personal experiences I'm not a huge fan of that whole hold out on a dude for a year [or some other outrageous amount of time]. I mean I understand those girls who just want the guys respect and all that other shit...but if your with him for like 6 months...you know he's feeling you but still u want to wait...do you really think that’s the definition of respect? Because while you think he's waiting, respecting you...more than likely he's just getting the pussy from some other girl. Some girl that didn’t make him waits. Now most "respectable" girls reading this are like "Well she just a hoe, and if I had to fuck him that quick I don’t need him". But then he end up leaving you for that "hoe". Then yall find every reason why he wasn’t worth shit anyway. When really if you would have let him sample a little nookie and stop holding out for months and years and shit...you would have had a better chance at keeping him.

I mean come on now, everybody is grown here. Every man AND woman knows that they have needs...and as bad as he wants the pussy, you want the dick just as bad. Now don’t get me wrong... I’m not saying fuck him on the first night...hell or even in the first week. But if you’re trying to test if he respects you give it a month or 2 at the most to see if he still wants to be with you. But anything beyond that is just insane. If you've ever had good dick/pussy before you know how hard it is going without it...It’s like torture. So why would you put anyone through that?! [Personally If I were a guy and did respect some girls wishes to wait...We waited and during the waiting period I fell in love with that chick. then when the sex come its bad pussy...i mean real bad and she dont even have the mouth to make up for it...its time to go! Some shit you just can't fix!] & why even put him in that situation. The female would think he left because he finally got the pussy but in all reality he just left because it was nasty raw toxic pussy! UGH! & he would probably be devastated that a girl he "loved" so much can’t even give him pleasure. See that situation right there can ALWAYS be avoided. The whole point of me voicing my opinion on this is because it truly bothers me when girls are constantly telling me that their not having sex with a guy & he respects that but I KNOW for a fact he be getting it elsewhere. Just don’t put yourself in that situation... a little waiting is ok, just don’t be outrageous!

There is sooo much more I could say about this but I'm sure yall tired of reading. So after reading this leave me a comment and tell me your thoughts [if your not a member it will be anonymous! :)] Say what you like...I love feedback! :) Until tomorrow guys..............
TOODLES!

Learning from the Past :)

Hello World.

So this is my first time blogging. Which also means this is MY first blog ever..and boy am I glad. A little bit about myself: Im a WRITER! I love writting everything from poems, short stories..heck I've even started a novel here and there. I also have a very strong passion for the arts. ARTS of every kind. Isnt it beautiful how one can capture life through a mere photograph or painting, drawing..etc! In this blog I will be discussing exactly what the title says. Life[which pretty much includes EVERYTHiNG], love, sex, and whatever else comes to my mind. Hopefully I am able to look back on this blog one day and say "BOY I'VE COME ALONG WAY"...Hopefully :)

So topic #1: Learning from the Past :

[Im sure this is a typical topic in blogs...but its just my thoughts on some recent things in my life :) --I'll try to stay away from typical subjects from here on out!]

       The best thing about the past may be the fact that from It more knowledge is gained. Through all mistakes some new knowledge should be learned. People say the worse mistakes are those from which nothing is learned. I am not a firm believer in the whole all things in life happen for a reason quote but in some cases I do find that it applies. In learning from a mistake that quote will definitely be applied; but serving the main purpose to really evaluate the problem and how you could have handled whatever the situation was better. But that quote can’t be applied to life in general. Because I refuse to believe that there is a reason that some people get raped, or commit suicide or the innocent are killed or prosecuted. I REFUSE to believe that life is really meant to be so cruel for some people. But that’s a totally different topic for a totally different day! The subject at hand for today is learning. Taking things from the past, even if it isn’t a regret and learning from it! School is not the only thing you should walk away from feeling more knowledgeable. Life in general should be a constant lesson. Everyday knowledge should be gained, whether intentional or accidental; Knowledge should be gained. Sometimes things don’t go as planned. Note it, and make a better effort to fix the problem so there will be no repeating the same mistake. Learn. Always take the opportunity to learn as much as possible. Knowledge is always useful and will always come in handy!

In my last relationship I walked away knowing far more than I had ever known before. And for my gained knowledge I appreciate and thank that young man. Although my heart is very much still with him I have finally accepted not being with him! I’ve evaluated the situation and found plenty of things I could have done different, or better! As I take this long overdue break from the dating world I’ve evaluated my personality. I know in order to be in a relationship with anyone I must first learn to be happy alone! Sometimes it can seem kind of hard, but there won’t always be someone there at the end of the night to share with, to bring a smile. So learn to find joy in yourself! I’ve also learned that saying sorry doesn’t solve problems. [People make it seem as if apologizing actually woks, like if I say sorry for hurting you things are all better. It’s so cliché, like a mothers kiss to a child’s wound, it’s all in the mind]. Some mistakes will never be able to be fixed, and those that can be aren’t easy to fix. It takes more than an apology. I also learned that we are in two different stages in life. And honestly his level might be more advanced than mine. My mind is still stuck in this fairytale lifestyle. Play play play, and dream is all I do. My mind is under construction to get to adulthood, but I like to dabble in childhood sometimes! I mean really what is the rush in growing up?! Anywho,off topic once more! I have learned a lot of thing in life..and every day when I think ive learned everything I possibly want to learn there is always something else! Something that I wonder how I ever went without knowing. I know it is cliché but knowledge is power. Without knowledge you will only grow physically never mentally!

Im on a journey to maturity [explains the url I chose :)]...and hopefully I'll have a few followers along the way. I hope to inspire, uplift, and entertain the thoughts of my readers! So til next time.............

Toodles!