tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post1704588731832833489..comments2023-10-10T03:25:28.200-05:00Comments on ...the mind of THE Corrupt Dreamer ♥: GiRLS HOLDiNG OUT ON THE [NOOKiE]Robyn Laticehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10958500330509891293noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-84574154510234156892010-01-15T05:30:06.948-06:002010-01-15T05:30:06.948-06:00#madlate.. lol but i'm new here..
this is suc...#madlate.. lol but i'm new here..<br /><br />this is such a HOT topic 4 me! i'm in a relationship.. & i was a virgin prior to this relationship. so i made him wait. a long time. while we were broken up, i know he had been with someone else. [ 4 more relationship details that could make this clear, visit my blog :) ]but what is so wrong with making him wait? granted, we were fooling around & he had everything but .. but still. i think trust is important in any relationship & for some people, it takes TIME. but then again, i don't view sex the same as a lot of people anyways.<br /><br />i'm on the fence about this. but nonetheless, it was a good read :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-70984669870483599102009-10-02T03:50:56.549-05:002009-10-02T03:50:56.549-05:00i agree. i also feel like why cant we be adults an...i agree. i also feel like why cant we be adults and just SAY what we want. <br />If im in it for sex ima say "i jst want sex" and IF he agrees ya'll good. if not den he can go. girls need to stop being hippacrists and liers. stop acting "shy" and grow up. men too. they can ask like the next man. <br />-sk3xSkeletronixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08071956702834039642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-64295190280786816662009-10-01T10:45:06.293-05:002009-10-01T10:45:06.293-05:00So....Robyn(you definitely don't know me this ...So....Robyn(you definitely don't know me this is not your friend Karimah)I agree with your statement! There shouldn't be a time period on when to give up the goodies! That little 3 month rule that some chicks follow is kinda silly to me!I guess people wait around to see if the sex is all that the guy is after, but in that case you have to already have an idea as to where you want the relationship to go in the beginning! But sex,head,finger action, or whatever will cum when the time is right! And when that special time cums you will know.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-11032737583003952332009-10-01T03:47:09.124-05:002009-10-01T03:47:09.124-05:00To the first lady to comment: I understand where ...To the first lady to comment: I understand where your coming from. But im not saying SEX is the main concern...I just think like Ervin said it doesnt take that long to figure out if you really want to be with someone! By no means am I encouraging girls to just fuck guys after the first few days or a week or two..but there should definetly be a timne period. But for the most part I agree on your point of view..just dont torture the me...come strong with the head game or whatever, just dont wait an obscene amount of time! :) Thank both of you for your comments!Robyn Laticehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10958500330509891293noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-17836402536681045142009-10-01T03:25:28.555-05:002009-10-01T03:25:28.555-05:00I say any longer than 2 months without ANY TYPE of...I say any longer than 2 months without ANY TYPE of action is lame. Unless the chick is scared of sex, she wants it just as much as the dude does. It does not take months and months to to figure out where somebody mind is at. Especially not these days. I Feel Like If I Have To Wait Months On In For Me To Even Get To See Breast, there's some trust issues goin on. Or the chick really dont know what she want. But Its Not About Gettin Sum Or Seeing somthing, more like "Why Does It Take 6 Months For U To Trust Me & How U Kno I Havnt Put My Trust In You Already?" & like u said dudes go off & find another. No Not The First Week But After About Two Or Three Months We Needa Go Further. We humans beings & sex is apart of our life. You take that away then we go to find it. So I Say this To Chicks in a nutshell : Dont rush the get to know process but dont prolong it. Also whos to say he wont fuck and leave after several months of waiting anyways? Then ud be even more devestated. Its Sex. Have It. Only nieve chicks get played.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10317461040695052503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6144277706968067078.post-89698403113329093852009-09-30T23:06:54.581-05:002009-09-30T23:06:54.581-05:00At our age, sex shouldn't be the 1st thing on ...At our age, sex shouldn't be the 1st thing on anybody's mind when it comes to finding a decent guy. FINDING A DECENT GUY should be the 1st thing! And making guys wait is not only about respect. If I decide not to put out for 3 days or 3 years, if he's around for the long haul, then he'll be okay with it. To put out too soon, the only thing that's going through my head is: "Is he still with me for the sex, or is he really into me?? Did he get to know enough of me before he got addicted to the pussy? And does he even care to know any more about me now that he's been exposed to this gold mine?" What a lot of females fail to realize is that sex can really f*** with a guys perception of, hell, everything. It's almost a distraction. As good as it is and as important as intimacy is to a relationship, sex should never be the main focus, NEVER. And if a guy feels like he has to get his from elsewhere while he's waiting on you (again, whether it's 3 days or 3 years), why would you want him anyway?????? REALLY?! If he cares enough about you and the connection that the two of you have (if there even is one), then his little man can wait any amount of time. {But ladies, if you plan on waiting months and years, PLEASE pleasure him some kind of way! Don't leave him high and dry. Have your mouth game tight, or something. Everybody needs to get off every now and again. But it doesn't necessarily have to be sex (meaning intercourse, if anybody wants to get technical).} There are several aspects of a relationship that have to be developed, before you can introduce something as strong as sex. But that's only if the two of you are both looking for a serious relationship. If ya'll are still in the mind set of getting into relationships that you know are going no where fast, just for the fun, then by all means put out as quick as you like. But as you get older, pickings become slim and slimmer, and you eventually start looking for a real relationship, not just flings here and there. You gotta let a guy get inside your head before they get inside your draws. How ever long that takes, is just how long it takes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com